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Day 11

Mommy has no answers or input on this day. Sometimes we suffer in silence.   We rode an uphill battle in it's entirety today. Having to relocate out of our home for the day and try to keep the environment  safe and fun is a major project for a FA family. We had wash downs, full on baths, and finally, benedryl just to hold it together. Shuffling around in an area not created by you can raise anxiety. All bets are off when a baby gets sick. 2 babies in bed safely now mommy's turn.

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