Today we had to run errands so I was on high alert for contact reactions. I told Sophia that she was going to have be very careful about what she touches, and help Mommy to keep her safe. She did a great job. She didn't have any reactions while we were out and when we got home she washed up on her own and even brushed her teeth! I am so proud of my 3 year old. This is a great routine for everyone to remove their shoes and wash their hands when they get home --to not bring home germs in general. Later, a small contact reaction developed but overall we made it through the day unscathed.
All parent's of young children living with a life threatening food allergy live in a constant, round the clock state of fear. Fear of the unknown, fear that our children cannot communicate their immediate needs and symptoms, and fear of putting anyone else in charge of managing this extremely dangerous allergy. Releasing control and delegating responsibilities is definitely where I struggle the most because, for me, handing that over to another person can be the biggest mistake I make. I'm not at all worried that a caregiver would not follow our rules and feed my darling junk food or too much sugar, let her watch too much TV, not use her manners, or let her negotiate her way on everything--- like most parent's would be concerned with. I'm worried that they might misread an ingredient, and show up at my house with cow's milk proteins lingering on their body or garments. I'm worried that they are oblivious to the MANY different ways that milk proteins are presen...
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