Today we met friends at a tiny park. We chose this location because it is usually bare of vistors, and therefore, I would feel comfortable managing the contacts with WetOnes. The constant worry of any fresh, concentrated proteins from kids eating at the park and using the equipment can be overwhelming enough to not take her to parks at all--but how awful is that for a kid? I got there and surveyed the area only to find an empty muffin bag, chocolate wrapper, a Chick fila wrapping and a bag of buttered popcorn. This is pretty bad, but it's still worse when there are people eating it next to her. I'm thankful we had a fun outing with no real damage control today! I would love to see parks food free with a picnic area set apart from the play equipment. It wouldn't be a perfect solution but it would help...
I love rainy days when staying at home has a reason other than recuperating from an allergic reaction or preventing one. Our lifestyle and perspectives are developed with food allergy safety being our first criteria. This is something we have honed in on and it is the greatest difference we have with everyone we know. It's a constant level of decision making that goes beyond general parenting. It's similar decisions that need reevaluation over and over again. We've had family in town and have managed to pull together to have fun and create safe environments while doing it. When people come together to help focus on similarities and not dwell on the differences, life is always beautiful. We are so blessed to have a family dedicated to making the efforts and loving us all through the gray areas. The biggest things we require are patience, understanding that our hearts are in the right place, and effort. We aren't on this journey alone because we all share the same world....
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