Today we met friends at a tiny park. We chose this location because it is usually bare of vistors, and therefore, I would feel comfortable managing the contacts with WetOnes. The constant worry of any fresh, concentrated proteins from kids eating at the park and using the equipment can be overwhelming enough to not take her to parks at all--but how awful is that for a kid? I got there and surveyed the area only to find an empty muffin bag, chocolate wrapper, a Chick fila wrapping and a bag of buttered popcorn. This is pretty bad, but it's still worse when there are people eating it next to her. I'm thankful we had a fun outing with no real damage control today! I would love to see parks food free with a picnic area set apart from the play equipment. It wouldn't be a perfect solution but it would help...
The holiday's can be challenging for families living with food allergies. Creating a safe environment, most of the time, means hosting all food events. For my house it also means asking everyone to wash their hands upon arrival and taking off their shoes. There's always that hidden worry that someone ate milk proteins before coming over and there's a morsel lingering on their clothes. But we do what we have to do to keep our family and friend relationships moving on the same path. It's so much easier to isolate your child and yourself but at what cost? Altering family recipes with safe ingredients has to happen because really what's a family recipe when all of the family can't enjoy it? We are so truly blessed to have a family that tries their best and makes things possible for us to be so close. If we can't get through to the one's who love us then how can we expect the rest of the world to listen?
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