A quiet, rainy day spent at home doing holiday arts and crafts with our shapes and colors. During a painting session, Sophia's arm broke out with a contact rash. I'm still puzzled as to what she was exposed to. We didn't use anything for the first time so I can't even begin to imagine what got to her. A huge part of the food allergy frustration is contact reactions. It's like invisible dangers that lurk everywhere, and you don't know about them until they have already harmed your child. Luckily today it was mild.
All parent's of young children living with a life threatening food allergy live in a constant, round the clock state of fear. Fear of the unknown, fear that our children cannot communicate their immediate needs and symptoms, and fear of putting anyone else in charge of managing this extremely dangerous allergy. Releasing control and delegating responsibilities is definitely where I struggle the most because, for me, handing that over to another person can be the biggest mistake I make. I'm not at all worried that a caregiver would not follow our rules and feed my darling junk food or too much sugar, let her watch too much TV, not use her manners, or let her negotiate her way on everything--- like most parent's would be concerned with. I'm worried that they might misread an ingredient, and show up at my house with cow's milk proteins lingering on their body or garments. I'm worried that they are oblivious to the MANY different ways that milk proteins are presen...
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